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Sonntag, 31. Dezember 2017

Under attack

Something I posted already at facebook.

Some people say it is negative, not good.
I wish that someone can convince me that it is not true.

I want to save it, and look back to it. That's why I not only keep this digital. My freedom to speak out my thoughts, is important to me

I want to save this, and look back in a year, or longer, and then hoping that I was wrong.

2017
America is under attack.
The enemy is not from a muslem state, but a very white, ultra white, president. 
While he brings billions of weapons to the most horrible regimes, like in Saudic Arab, he and his team start ruining their own country.
He preaches hate at everyone who not agrees, he censors the internet, newspapers and administration.
The freedom in the country is for the rich.
The world is in shock, many still not believe that the monster is alive again.
But we all notice the impact of this horror, now already. And it has just begun.
We should be afraid, very much.
We should resist.
NEVER accept regression, from race, religion, gender.
Resist.
Love is the answer.

Freitag, 8. Dezember 2017

Facts, or Fake?

It is a thing that became 'hot', when a certain dictator started to spread the news about fake facts, what are the things that he does not want to hear.

It is a dangerous thing, used by all dictators, to hide the truth and to make it lighter to force their plans to the people.
Recently there are many messages that rewrite American history. The new version is that the people who 'discovered'  American, needed place to stay.
The true reason, is, that the people in America (now called natives), were rudely hunted and slaughtered, because the 'white man'  needed place.  There was no communication, just repression

Now I discovered this image, and it made my eye roll.  Only one, the other refuses services for more then 55 years :)

What the heck is this world going up to?
Are we,  I mean, are they (who ever they are) trying to rewrite history, just simply keeping away the true meaning of the chirstmas tree, and all that jazz?  Why the hell (sorry!) are people trying to make people believe that THIS is the reason?

Read history, people, learn about the Germanic traditions, the old verses and symbols that were moving people far before J.C. was born. And even that story, is (lightly said) questionablee,

And when I discussed this, the person who posted it, told me that (s)he did not want a religious discussion.

I rest my case in that.  Yes, I can be nice, sometimes (we all have our weak momnts, I suppose)

  But I shall never stop to stand up for the truth!

Montag, 27. November 2017

Coward

What do you expect?

What do you want, if you do something for someone?
Do you want something in return, or do you just want to please the other?

When you, 'just'  want to please the other, the thngs are pretty simple. You succeed, and the other is happy, or you fail, and the other is not happy. Most likely you will get rewarded with a happy face, and that, while you were not expecting that.

When you do something to get something in return, the reactions can be a bit more complicated. Maybe the other does not want to give you something in return, or maybe (s)he gives you something in return what disappoints you.

When you have build up somethnig, together with someone else, who often called you 'friend', you get to know each other better.  If you observe the other well, you not need to be surpised with his attitude.
When you have seen the reaction of the other in situations, you can form an image of what might be expecting you, sooner or later.

When you have seen, that the other never has the guts to complete or end a situation, you should not be surprised when similar happens to you, sooner or later.
When the other is too cowardly to tell exactly what (s)he thinks, you can not expect that (s)he all the sudden is honest and open to you, at the moment that (s)he has to be.

So, it should not surprise me, at the moment that I am 'served off', that it is going in silence. And that I only notice it coincidentically,  what (s)he did.
And even when it does not surprise me, it hurts a bit. Because I, me myself, do not use the word friendship easy.
For me the word friendship means, that you can be open in telling the other things, good and bad.
When you not have the guts to tell me what is going on, it will not be a surprise.

That is the moment that I will cut trhrough the lines for you.
You can not do it, appearantly.  And I will do it, so that I can close the chapter, and open the door for new, different challenges.
And if we meet (it will happen), I can look streight into your eyes, without needing to run away.  I think I nnow you well enough, to know how you will react when it is that far.



Sonntag, 19. November 2017

You are a true fan when ...

You are a true (queen) fan, when you respect  the will of your idols and their friends.

I had to think about that, when I read the article below,. All Queen fans are aware of the place where Freddie lived, in London, and many of them paid that place a visit. It is a wonderful place to be, and to remember our beloved Freddie.

I was there a few times as well. It is a fantastic house, huge, in summer you can hear the fountains in the ponds and, over the high wall, you can see the roof of the house where Freddie lived so many years.
A place to get silent, to remember all what our Idol meant, and still means for us.

Through the years, the  high wall around the place has become a 'cult' place for many Queen fans.
It started with a few beautiful wall arts, and soon people started to scribble things at the wall.
Now the ownder (Freddies ex girflfriend) did not like that and took several measures so that the people could not write so easy at the wall anymore.

You should think that people got the message, but no.  People invented new techniques to be able to write at the wall again, against the will of the people who live there.

Why are people doing this? What does it mean for you, to write things at a wall (ruining it, in fact), in the knowledge that it will be gone soon again and is unwanted?
I brought flowers with me, and a card. Got (of course) a photo at the green door, and that's it. We listened to the birds, to the water, the sound of the area,  and our thoughts were with Freddie.

I feel sometimes very ashamed for my fellow queen fans, who do only want to do their own thing, and who are blind for the wishes of others.  Most likely Freddie should not have liked this kind of things to happen either. And they should not, they are useless, cost a lot of money and a lot of frustration.

It remains a huge mystery to me, why (queen) fans need to ruin the property of other people!



https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/661112/Freddie-Mercury-Queen-ex-girlfriend-removes-shrine-fan-outrage-britpop-legend

Donnerstag, 2. November 2017

Thoughts of the world


When something bad happens, and the child tells that it is not his fault, but of his brother, what do you do as parent?

Do you believe him, because when you disagree with him, he will be whining and angry?
Or do you teach him that we are all responsible?

When a person get hurted by a car, that drives through the red light,  who is then responsible?
Some people will say the person of traffic light company.  Or maybe it is the programmer of the light?  Did de technolocy in the car fail to detect?
Did the victim violate the rules, while he did not take enough care for eventually traffic through right?

Should we hunt the inventors of the colours red, orange and green?

No matter what.  We were not there, we are not guilty.  And we can point to any other, to say that they are the bad ones.

The ones who use those powers should realize that their judgement,  might have longer and stronger effect at the ones who are involved.  Who is treaten bad,  and punished without being guilty, will not easily forget. And for all, they will not give the 'parent with power'  the respect that they want to get.

Be honest.
Take the consequences

It is not important who did do the thing. It is important how to handle it, so be better prepared for next icidendt. Because it will come, sooner or later.

Montag, 30. Oktober 2017

the strategy of destruction

The tactic of distruction in 2017

Communicate throught the social media

Write short lines (less then 140 signs) in what you talk full bullshit.
Do not react on any response

The ones who laugh about it, will spread your words on parties and in the pub, when they need to tell a good joke.
The people who take it serious, will be laughed away by the laughers. And they will say, it is just a joke

Take your decisions, without listening to any advice of whoever.  Tell yourself 1.000 times that you are the greatest.  In fact you can't be, because Muhammed Ali, he rest in peace, was the greatest!

Label everyone who critisize your actions as spreaders of fake news.  Make your own fake news to the only thing you believe in.

Populism, world wide, brings only disasters.  Look to the Brexit, look to what happens in the USA, or in Catalonia.

It is time that people step from their podest, and realize that no one is better then any other. We are all human people.  Let's help eachother out of this sinking ship. Fix it, be alert. Do not allow people around you to destruct things.  In the bus, in the street, in politics.  

Sonntag, 15. Oktober 2017

the 2nd han(d)s coat

Here the short story of the 2nd hand coat

Or, if you prefer, the story of the photographer

Who knows me, knows that I like photography
And who knows me , knows as well that I do not like when others are hurt. No matter animal or human.

It was beautiful weather today, and I decided for a short walk. I read that there was a 'garage sale', this sunday, not so far away from here, and I made my walk to it. As expected, it was very crowded and, at the sunny side, very warm.

I walked, and, in a second nature, I wear my camera with me, ready to shoot. 

My eye and my lense were caught by a fur coat for sale.  A lady looked at it, smiled at me and said, it is much too hot for that. I smiled back and said, that I only like fur at animals. She smiled, politely, and I took a few steps backward, to take a photo of this.

Not the best shot, but, it was made and I had a good feeling with it.
Other then the salesman.  He came out of his chair (wow!) yelled loud at me, that I did  scare away his customers, and that he wanted money from me if I do it again.  I raised my eyebrows, and told him that I like his humor, and that people decide theirselves what to buy or not, and not me.  The man became red as a tomato, and he started to tell me words in a language that I can not understand and he said that he would call the police in.  I said to him, do so.  While waiting I will stroll over the market, and I return here later.

I heared a laughter behind me. The woman who not soled the fur had come to see what the uproar was.  She said to the man. Yes, please do call the police. Else I might do so, for you are selling bad immitated fur for the price of real.

It was a beautiful, sunny day. And I got smiles from a nice stranger. And an phot. And a blog.

And my cold disappears through the sun.


Sonntag, 8. Oktober 2017

stop hate!

Here below is a piece of poetry (ahem) that I posted at facebook, and what, at this moment is fitting for me exactly how things are going.

There are people, politicians (or so called ones), that have no other option then drifting people out of each other. They preach and promote hate, and then stand up as the solver of the problems that they made by themselves.

I confess guilty. I am doing such as well. At the moment that someone is promoting hate, or discrimination, on race, sex, or whatever, then I get furious. I react sometimes more fanatic then I want to. I promise myself, here again, that I will take care, and try to be a bit more kind.  But how can I be kind to a racist or a war maker?

The first, impulsive, reaction, when people act like this (no go.ers) is, that I want to kick them away. I need no racists, I need no nazis, go away!!!
But that reaction is wrong. It is understandable, but it is wrong!

I want to talk with people. I want them to listen to my different view. I want to talk with them about our different visions. Because only when we understand each other, when we talk, we have the chance that our opinion changes and that we come closer to each other.  No, I will NOT come closer to discrimination, NEVER!!!, but only with talking we can understand each other.

I try better, and I do succeed in this attitude better. I do not run away so easy anymore, and now the things are turning around, in that the others run away.  Why?  Because I keep on telling them that I see things different. Becauee I keep on telling them that I like them to listen to my side of the story. Just listening, more I do not ask. Just listening, to try to understand each other.
Now they wont, they don't and they run away, with saying, I hate it, that you constantly attack our leader (as if they personally know him, as if he can not defend himself).  Well, yes, it is an attack on HIM, but it is trying to let YOU understand why I think that he is no good!  And if you don't want to hear that, if you continue in defending someone wiho is racistic, and continueously discriminating people who think different, then you are not a bit better.

I am allergic for the line... I am not a racist, but.... I am not against foreigners, but...
Well?  You are against or not!  No compromises!
 Here below my facebook posting.  The person involved did not only unfriend me, but blocked me, so that she can not read my opinion anywhere. So fast a friendship can switch to hate.

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oh oh...... someone could not stand my critical notes at Agent Orange, and punished me with a block. I think that is the wrong way to try to learn to understand eachother. One racistic supporter left at tle list. I still can not understand why they not want to talk. Scared? I think so.
Thank you, Agent Orange, you drifted another couple of people out of each other, you fool. It won't help you, but I feel sorry for your loyal follower, who has to end up a friendship. You s.ck, orange one!




Montag, 2. Oktober 2017

Breakfast in America

An imaginary story

All persons are fiction. Any relation to real persons is made on purpose, and exactly meant to be referring to that person.

Good morning Melonia

Good morning Agent Orange

(from now on Melon is M. and Agent Orange is a 0 (as in zero)

O - How often should I say you, that you should greet ME first?  I guess you like the whip, today it are 30.
M - thank you, for your generousity, dear husband.

O - Is breakfast ready?


M - in a minute, my dear, I was watching the news on tv and ...
O - What the F??? You were watching TV??  You know it is breakfast first in this house as well as everywhere in my towers, you stoopid thing!

M - I am so sorry, my leader, but something very horrible
O - you are not listening, do you?  Breakfast. NOW!  Else there will be no spanking, but hair pulling

M - oh nooooo, noo,  not that, but the news was so shocking, I think you should
O - BREAKFAST FIRST!!!


Melonia dribbles to the kitchen, brings the horrible man his toast and coffee

O - Grrrrrr.... Illie!  Look at this coffee!  It is black!  You know I HATE black!
M - hands over the milk, shaking with her hands

Breakfast is eaten in silence.  M reads the news, at her tablet.  0 writes a tweet about fake news.

And an hour later, the zero asks his Melonia, what she has been talking about, what horrible thing happened.  M tells about a shoot out in Las Vegas.

The orange zero mumbles, M, can you hand over me the book twitter for dumies?  I need it to please my fans.

M hands over the book. It looks like it has been used many times.  The tweet appears.  Together we unite. Sorry folks for what happened. Well done safety people.

0 leans back.
Now, Mellie,  bring on the whip and bend over the desk.

An hour later, the big 0 surprises his lady.

Melonia, darling, how about a visit to Las Vegas, in two days?  My fans are waiting!


Sonntag, 1. Oktober 2017

Blind or coward

It happens again.

I involved myself in a political discussion.  Someone who was whining about that someone was not nice to the FLOTUS..  And I reacted harsh. Because I think tht you not need to feel sorry for a racist. And her husband is. And as long as she not takes distance, she is as well.

So, I wrote that, it was a bit off topic, but appearantly it hit some strings. Maybe I got emotional and unintentionally offended the writer.  Still, I stand to every word that I wrote. Okay, I am not the most tactical writer, sometimes, but I stand for my things and against racists!
Put a sign, that you are NOT one of them, and I respect it. But when you support racistst, in no matter what way, you are not a person that I like to eat a pint of beer with (let's see who really reads my ranting, lol)
And I wonder how fair it is to tell your own opinion, and when another disagrees, you just start snifffing your nose and walk away? Is that how we learn to respect each other?

I do not go so far that I delete people from 'my 'facebook list'  People are always allowed to discuss with me.  But when people put up a subject, and then all the sudden prefer to walk away (taking a time out, or really leave my friends' circle), then I won't stop them.

I do not think it is coincidental, that it happened today (again). I just think it is unfair,  when you stand for a point, and you upset people (me!), and then say, okay, I can't handle this, it is too much.

Good. Your choice. If you want to fly like an Eagle, then do so. you are always welcome to land at my planet. And if you hit a ball, I might return it again.  There is simply no place for hate, at this planet! :)


Oh, and other than that.  I saw the person that gave the thunbs up for the whining.  Typical! I wonder when that person starts running away? 



Freitag, 22. September 2017

Elections

Elecitons in Germany

As, sadly, is a tendency, world wide, there seem to be more and more acceptance for extreme clubs and teams, and as well political parties.

At the upcoming elections (next Sunday), we will get the historical fact that even in Germany are people chosen into the parliament, who support nazi ideas and discrimination of several groups of people.

I fear that it is unstoppable (but I still have two days to hope, and many with me, that it will not be true).
The movement already cries victory and feel themselves big winners. Typical for them is that they make a lot of noise, but appearantly have not much facts to be proud of. Or it must be the many frauds, violences and other violations against the law that the candidates carried from their past, and still promoting.

The loud screams give a unclear view at the situation. According to the noise you might think that the movement is big and powerful. Nothing is less than that.  Even when, in the worst scenario, they wil be the 3rd party in Germany, they still are a small minority.  But they are loud.  The majority is silence, and let the scum scream.

Lucky there are voices as well that put a sign that this will NEVER be accepted. There is no place for nazis, rasists and violation, not in Germany, not in Europe, not in the world and even not in America (what appearantly tries to seperare from the rest of the world, but still needs the world for their war fights).

I am one of the people that will always voice against this things. The social media are being stucked with the racistic bullshit of that party, and I was so f.cked up with it, that I did join a certain group, in what a lot of racism and discriminination, as well as nazism, is allowed.

I posted a few things, in the knowledge that there should be nasty reactions.  I knew that the nasty people should not react at the content, but playing at the person (me, in this case). Telling me names, advising psychologic help, well, we all know the stuff that is spread that way.

I consider this as a project.  I know that the brown shit will try to put me down, and I try not to get emotionally involved. I mean, how much does it hurt when people tell me names and they have no idea who I am?  I try to ask questions like, please react at the content, and I do not understand the agessive words, why do you use them.  
The only (and predictable) replies are more shitstorms, more and more heavy reactions and further absolutely nothing.

It won't upset me. Not at all.  And if this will open only 1 person the eyes, to see what 'the brown movement'  is up to, then my mission is already succeeded.

And yes, you may say that I am a dreamer. But I know I am not the only one!

Mittwoch, 20. September 2017

Misreadings and prejudices


Don't worry, I will not go on politics today. Even when it is very close to the elections in our country, I like to leave that to another blog. What definitely will come!

I want to blog about how easy people misunderstand others.

Today it happened to me.  Many of you know that we, in our city, have the yearly marches and festivities of the 'schützenfest',  wherre many 'schützen'  celebrate.  Schützen, literarilly translated as shooter, have a rich tradition, what comes indeed from testing the shooting skills. Still one of the highlights of this festivities.  Google to find out more :P

Everyone who attended once, or read a bit, about the present Schützenfeste (there are many, here in Germany!) knows that it are big parties for the entire population. The Schützen /marksmen  with their parades, the people that watch, the funfair and more of it.  -

Now it seems that a few people were not so really informed about what a Schützenfest is, and they found it necessary to put anger, in the form of emoticons and remarks to the photos that I posted about this year's Schützenfest.
As being convinced 'vegan' and against any violence against animals, they found it necessarily to name all the Schützen '
A fine collection of ugly, brainless bastards'. 
I raised my eyebrows, smiled about it, and realized that they have no idea what a Schützenfest is about and what the Marks men nowadays do.  So, instead of defending them, I just shrugged and walked away with it. I not even find it necessary to explain what it is about.

If someone stands for something, (except discrimination, nazism and such), I think it is their full right to do so. And you always can comment when you disagree with things.  But why do you need to use such harsh words, for a thing that you do not understand?

I do not want excuses or so (I don't expect them!), but I want you to think, before you react.

When you are so disappointed in people, and love animals more then human beings, then it does not mean that you can not show respect for others.  Burn them down, but only, when you know what you are talking about. Else you are as scary as some world leaders.

That's it. Nothing to add!

-> here are the photos of the schützenfest <- a="" nbsp="">


 photos Sch+tzenfest 2017

Montag, 11. September 2017

that time again

It is that time again, that my head collected a few questions, that made me thinking.

There I go, some food from my brains, don't say I did not warn you!

* Why are people treating policians with disrespect  and then all the sudden talk about the disrespect of others, when some people demolished things?
* Why do some people say that things should be better, there should be more law and rules, and at the same time they do not pay taxes (or make fraude to health insurance)?

* When people say that 'public persons'  like politician, members of  royal familess, should be used to critc and sarcasm, why can't they understand when someone makes a joke about them theirselves?
* When you are always present at any kind of public events, why are you then so protective and angry when photos of you show up in the media?

Why do I bother, anyway?

That's it folks,  I hope that, now I wrote this, I can sleep better tonight. :)

Before saying something about someone else, look into the mirror and ask yourself if it is worth it.

Freitag, 8. September 2017

A helping hand

It is always nice, when people stand up for others, because together you are stronger then alone.

There are several reasons why others will stand up for you. There are (of course) also reasons why someone will not stand up for you, but that is for another moment.

Why do people want to help you?
The first we may think of, is because we care for each other. We help each other in a fight, or struggle, because we want the other to be happy, good, healthy.

I should like to think that that is always the reason, for helping, but reality is different.

There are people who like to help, and put some conditions on it. One is that they must get something back for what they invest. Gratefulness, or a boost of their own ego, are two things that come up inmy mind, there might be more.

Or a moment in the publicity, so that everyone can see how good they are.

The help gets questionable when the other puts conditions for  it. Like, okay, your house burnt down, now you can not put that blue paint anymore, I help you, but the paint must be red.

When you really are desperate, you might accept all the help you can get,without caring too much for what the consequences might be for the future. Surviving is the first and basic thing to do.

I do hope that, who ever comes in such a situation, will find the people that not only help to get better theirselves, or promise money, with huge publicity, and in the end do not give a penny.



Donnerstag, 7. September 2017

From Facebook

Liane Scholl hat 3 neue Fotos hinzugefügt.
Psychopathie – eine ernstzunehmende Persönlichkeitsstörung!
Ein Psychopath, was ist das?
Ich möchte es an einem Beispiel erklären. Und, um es besser verständlich zu machen, nennen wir unseren Psychopathen Erwin Müller mit Namen. Oder, einfacher und kürzer, EM.
Einige werden sich fragen, was der Begriff Psychopath eigentlich in Facebook zu suchen hat?
Nun, das ist einfach gesagt.
Auch in Facebook arbeiten diese kranken Kriminellen, verstecken sich hinter der Maske des Biedermanns.
Und nur wer einem Psychopathen einmal ins Netz gegangen ist, und um Haus, Auto und um sein hart erarbeitetes Vermögen betrogen wurde, weiß um die zerstörerische Kraft, den ein solch krankhaft Krimineller auf sein Umfeld ausüben kann.
Ein kanadischer Wissenschaftler beschrieb diesen gefährlichen Menschen folgendermaßen:
Charmant wie George Clooney, selbstherrlich wie Josef Stalin, verlogen wie Pinocchio, betrügerisch wie Bernard Madoff, aufbrausend wie Adolf Hitler und
sexuell untreu wie Casanova.
Ein Psychopath lehnt jede Verantwortung für sein Handeln ab. Schuld haben immer die Anderen. Er ist unfähig Reue oder gar Mitgefühl gegenüber anderen Menschen zu empfinden.
Es mangelt ihm an Gewissen und Schuldbewusstsein.
Sein Mitgefühl gilt nur sich selbst.
So wie bei unserem EM.
Jahrelang hat er sich in seinen Tagebüchern dafür bedauert und bejammert, nicht nach Südfrankreich reisen zu können, da seine finanziellen Möglichkeiten dazu nicht ausreichen. Die Wahrheit, dass er selbst Schuld daran trägt, weil EM Zeitlebens die Arbeit scheute und die letzten vierzig Jahre durchgehend von staatlicher Unterstützung und Hartz 4 gelebt hat, sucht man in seinen Aufzeichnungen allerdings vergeblich.
Stattdessen sucht er nach bequemeren Möglichkeiten, um an die nötigen finanziellen Mittel zu kommen und seinen Traum von einem schönen Leben unter der Sonne Südfrankreichs zu verwirklichen. Dazu gehören im Einzelfall viel Geld, ein dickes Motorrad und ein möglichst großes Wohnmobil.
Woher also nehmen, wenn man selbst nicht arbeiten will?
Ganz einfach: Durch Betrug!
Und so beschreibt er sechs Jahre seines Lebens, die nie stattgefunden haben. 
Jedem der es hören oder nicht hören will, erzählt EM etwas von einer gutgehenden Surfschule, von fast gewonnenen Weltmeisterschaften, von gutgehenden Wassersportgeschäften, von einem Haus in einem Ort Namens La Palme, von tollen Berichten in irgendwelchen französischen Zeitungen, die ihm monatlich alleine 1.500,00 Euro einbringen würden.
Außerdem erwähnt er am Rande noch die Beteiligung an einer gutgehenden Firma für Papiermaschinen, deren Teilhaberschaft bei etwa 2,8 MillionenEuro liegt.
Eigentlich unglaublich, was er da so von sich gibt.
Aber vergessen wir nicht, wir haben es bei EM mit einem Psychopathen zu tun.
Er besitzt tatsächlich den oben erwähnten Charme eines George Clooney, der ihm hilft, leichtgläubige Menschen über den Tisch zu ziehen. Und deshalb glauben sie ihm, wenn er schluchzend berichtet, er hätte soeben einen Rucksack mit 5000 Euro, sowie eine Kamera im Wert von 2500 Euro verloren. Fünftausend Euro, die angeblich für die Anzahlung eines Wohnmobils gedacht waren. Mit seinen falschen Krokodiltränen erreicht er tatsächlich, dass ihm eine Frau nicht nur den angeblichen Schaden ersetzt, sondern auch noch 30.000 Euro für ein Wohnmobil vorstreckt, welches er wie selbstverständlich als das seine betrachtet. 
Am Ende sollten es über fünfzigtausend Euro sein, um die er sein Opfer betrügt.
Eine Woche später ist er schon Richtung Südfrankreich unterwegs. In Begleitung zwar, jedoch nicht mit der Frau, die das Mobil finanzierte und der es rechtmäßig gehört. Ihr sagt er kein Wort.
Fahrt, Sprit und sonstige Kosten finanzierte EM übrigens mit einer fremden EC Karte, die es ihm erlaubte, tausende Euro zu verjubeln.
Natürlich verspricht er hoch und heilig, alles zurückzahlen.
Im Oktober, wenn EM sein Jahresgehalt ausgezahlt bekommt.
Woher? Von wem? Welches Gehalt?
Tja, ein Psychopath ist natürlich erfinderisch. Das muss er auch sein, um sein mühsam aufgebautes Trugbild aufrecht zu erhalten. Mit dem Erfolg, dass unser Psychopath EM nach einiger Zeit tatsächlich selbst alles glaubte, was er so erlogen hatte. Und deshalb ist es kein Wunder, dass er sich einen zweiten Lebenslauf zulegt.
Er muss das tun, um mit seinen Ausreden und weiteren Lügen, sein Opfer ruhig zu stellen.
EM erfindet deshalb einen Menschen, dem er all die Eigenschaften mitgibt, die unser Psychopath EM selbst gerne an sich sähe.
So zum Beispiel als Parapsychologe an einer Uni, mit einem Jahresgehalt von 120.000 Euro. Keine deutsche Uni beschäftigt zwar einen solchen dubiosen Wissenschaftler, aber das stört EM nicht. 
Die erfundene Zweitexistenz soll ja keinen Wissenschaftler überzeugen. Sie dient nur einem einzigen Zweck: Anderen Menschen Geld aus der Tasche zu ziehen und dazu zu bringen, ihm ein bequemes Leben zu ermöglichen. 
Geld, materieller Gewinn und Macht sind für unseren Psychopathen EM von enormer Bedeutung. Einsicht oder die Bereitschaft durch eigene Arbeit und erhaltenen Lohn etwas zu verändern, fehlt ihm völlig. Vielmehr suhlt und badet er im übersteigerten Selbstwert- und Machtgefühl. Er zeigt oberflächlichen Charme, Gefühle wie Mitleid oder Schuld sind ihm allerdings fremd. 
So überzeugt er sein Opfer, mit ihr nach Südfrankreich auszuwandern und sie dort zu heiraten. Mit diesen falschen Versprechen schafft es EM mehrere Monate lang, per SMS, Emails und MSN seinem Opfer immer noch weitere Gelder aus der Tasche zu ziehen. Auch die Bezahlung eines Winterurlaubs wird gerne angenommen. EM ist da nicht wählerisch.
Nur mit der Rückzahlung seiner Schulden, da ist es so eine Sache.
Also muss eine neue Story, eine neue Lügengeschichte her.
Das Finanzamt, so sprach EM zu seinem Opfer, hätte seine sämtlichen Firmenkonten beschlagnahmt und gesperrt. Natürlich ist er unschuldig daran (Woran eigentlich?), seine Teilhaber hätten ihn hereingelegt. 
Oftmals rief ihn sein Freund, der Bürgermeister aus Südfrankreich an, Chefärzte und Professoren aus der UNI, um seine „parapsychologische“ Meinung zu erfragen, sowie viele andere „wichtige Persönlichkeiten“, die seinen wertvollen persönlichen Rat benötigten. Seltsamerweise geschah das immer dann, wenn EM mit seinem Opfer in einem teuren Restaurant zum Essen war und es ans Bezahlen ging. Er verabschiedete sich und sein Opfer zahlte selbst noch die Restaurantrechnung. Letztendlich stellte sich heraus, dass EM Handys in der linken und rechten Hosentasche mit sich trug, die es ihm erlaubten, sich selbst anzurufen und er so sein Schmierentheater vorspielen konnte.
So war es kein Wunder, dass er im Beisein seines Opfers, auch von der ach so schlimmen Geschichte, mit dem Finanzamt und der Sperrung seiner Konten erfuhr, indem er sie sich selbst erzählte.
Deshalb, „Das verstehst du doch, mein Rehlein….“, kann er seinem Opfer das Geld leider nicht zurückzahlen. 
(Achtung: „Rehlein“ ist das braune Tier im Wald. Nicht zu verwechseln mit „Feelein“, der Märchenfigur und seiner jahrelangen Komplizin.)
Mal hat angeblich das Finanzamt seine Konten gesperrt, mal hat seine angebliche Sekretärin, in Wirklichkeit jedoch EMs Komplizin B. (auch „Feelein“ genannt) die nicht vorhandenen Gelder falsch überwiesen.
Natürlich hat EM eine Rückzahlung nie vorgehabt. Wovon auch? Warum auch?
Einzig das Finanzielle und ein falscher, auf Lügen aufgebauter Status sind ihm wichtig. Er will glänzen, will etwas darstellen, was er nie war. Also lügt und betrügt er weiter. Sich in die Verluste und Schmerzen andere Menschen einzufühlen, ist ihm völlig fremd. Selbst dann nicht, wenn er ihre komplette Existenz zerstört hat. 
Ihm geht es ausschließlich um das eigene Wohlbefinden.
Um ein schönes Leben ohne arbeiten zu müssen, um ein Wohnmobil, um ein schönes Motorrad, um einen Traum, der für seine Opfer zum Alptraum wird.
Dafür lügt, betrügt, unterschlägt und stiehlt er und zerstört nebenbei noch das Leben der Menschen, die ihm „auf den Leim gegangen“ sind, die ihm vertrauten.
Dann fielen seinem Opfer zufällig die Leistungsbescheide für EMs Sozialleistungen bzw ALG2, kurz Harz4, in die Hand. 
Vorbei war es mit Parapsychologe, mit Surfschule, mit Firmenbeteiligungen, mit von ihm finanzierten Häusern in den besten Vierteln Meerbuschs, in denen –angeblich- seine geschiedene Frau, sein Sohn und seine Tochter wohnten. Vorbei auch mit seinem angeblichen Haus in Südfrankreich, mit seinen französischen Konten, auf denen noch einige Hunderttausend Euro schlummern sollten, vorbei mit dem Traum von einem Leben ohne Arbeit, aber auf Kosten andrerer unter südlicher Sonne.
Peng!
Und das Wohnmobil, mit welchem er den großen Macker spielte?
Erst nach massiven Drohungen, nach einem Trick, der EM Angst einjagte, bekam sein Opfer ihr Wohnmobil wieder zurück. Allerdings ausgeräumt bis auf den letzten Teelöffel.
Schuldgefühle hat EM deswegen nicht.
Woher auch?
Sofort nachdem er sein ihm zugefügtes Elend und Unrecht seinem Tagebuch anvertraut hat, nachdem er einige Tage kurz vor dem Selbstmord stand, erinnerte er sich an eine ehemalige Freundin, die in ihrem langen Berufsleben einiges an finanziellen Dingen an die Seite geschafft hatte,
um einen sorgenfreien Lebensabend zu genießen.
Sie wird sein nächstes Opfer und –fast- alles wiederholt sich.
Das ist kein Wunder, denn im Laufe seines verkorksten und arbeitsscheuen Lebens hat EM ein ausgeklügeltes System geschaffen, mit dessen Hilfe er meist älteren Frauen eiskalt das Geld aus der Tasche zieht.
Wie schrieb ich anfangs?
Charmant wie George Clooney, selbstherrlich wie Josef Stalin, verlogen wie Pinocchio, betrügerisch wie Bernard Madoff, aufbrausend wie Adolf Hitler und
sexuell untreu wie Casanova.
Niemand sollte deshalb seinen Opfern die Schuld geben, dass sie EM vertrauten.
In EMs immer wiederkehrenden Betrugssystem tauchen aufs Neue seine nicht existierende Surfschule auf, sein Haus in La Palme, seine Gelder auf französischen Konten und sein Versprechen, mit seinen armen Opfern nach Südfrankreich zu gehen und dort mit ihnen sorgenfrei zu leben.
Heirat natürlich inbegriffen.
Dass er noch verheiratet ist, verschweigt er.
Der Schaden, den EM in seiner psychopathisch kriminellen Energie auch diesmal anrichtet, wird sich auf mehr als vierzigtausend Euro ansammeln.
Sein Opfer ist ruiniert. 
EM natürlich nicht. Man kann ihn nicht ruinieren, er lebt von einer Rente, die durch staatliche Gelder aufgestockt wird.
Sein Opfer ist ihm egal.
Für den psychischen Schaden seines Opfers, hat EM nur ein Schulterzucken übrig. 
EM hat kein Gewissen!.
Seine Gewissenlosigkeit und sein fehlendes Schuldbewusstsein begünstigen so den Schritt in die strafbare Kriminalität.
Allerdings sieht EM diese Tatsache völlig seitenverkehrt. 
Denn durch seine Persönlichkeitsstörung ist es ja nicht er, EM, der strafbare Handlungen begeht und arme Opfer um ihr Vermögen bringt, sondern der ANDERE. Der Doktor an der Uniklinik, der Parapsychologe, der tolle Windsurfer, der betrogene Firmeninhaber, der vom Finanzamt verfolgte.
Und für deren Verhalten kann er nichts. Er ist doch nur der arme, unverstandene EM, den alle gern haben, der so romantisch ist und das Schöne liebt.
Wut, Ärger und Aggressionen liegen bei einem Psychopathen eng beieinander. So auch bei unserem imaginären Erwin Müller, genannt EM. Sie kommen erst dann zum Vorschein, wenn man ihm auf die Schliche kommt, sich von ihm abwendet und ihn mit all seinem kriminellen Tun konfrontiert. Dann fühlt er sich in seiner paranoiden Persönlichkeit provoziert und bedroht. So auch EM.
Einsicht jedoch, wird er nicht zeigen! Er wird jede eigene Schuld abstreiten und sich herausreden. Das kann er, das hat er tausendfach geübt. Es ist deshalb nicht verwunderlich, dass jemand wie EM eine ausgeprägte Neigung zu Schuldzuweisungen an andere besitzt, sowie eine einleuchtende Erklärung für seine Handlungen, mit der er das eigene kriminelle Verhalten herabzuspielen versucht.
Diejenigen aber, die ihm auf die Schliche gekommen sind, werden von ihm als „krank“ bezeichnet, die ihm nur Böses antun wollen und seiner deshalb nicht würdig sind.
Auch wird EM wieder der Schwermut verfallen, wird nur sich selbst bedauern, wird sich in den Lobhudeleien derjenigen suhlen, die ihn noch nicht durchschaut haben.
Diejenigen aber, die EM durchschaut und ihn als kriminellen Psychopathen erkannt haben, denen wird er drohen, wird Mobbing betreiben, wird sie schlecht machen wo er nur kann, wird alles dafür tun, um sie zu vernichten.
Gäbe es EM wirklich, würde ich ihm sagen: 
Lieber EM, es gibt fast niemand mehr, der noch auf deine Lügen hereinfällt. Niemandem kannst du mehr erzählen, du wärst unschuldig an allen Vorwürfen, denen man dich anklagt.
Du solltest dir dringend ärztlichen Rat holen.
Dieb, eines arbeitsscheuen Individuums benutzt habe.
Jede Ähnlichkeit mit tatsächlich lebenden Personen sind deshalb rein zufällig.

Montag, 4. September 2017

Be real, be you

Everyone knows the social media.  Children, parents, grandparents, eveyone has heared about Facebook, Twitter and more,  and, in our western world, a lot of us are using it.

A lot of people use the social media to expose their daily activities. Posting photos from holidays and friends, and sharing articles that they find intresting (and often they are not fake).  The social media is as well a platform to discuss opinion.


WRONG!

A discussion is only rarely possible.  If you post an opinion, there are always people who feel that they need to tell you soething about it. The more friends you have, the more people might disagree with you.

Messages are explained in the wrong way, or the reaction on the messages are out of proportion.
Post something about how normal it was to take water to school, when we were young, and there are people who tell you that water is for the dogs, that their kids don't want water  (and prefer energy drinks).
Post something about how to take care for refugees, and people start telling you that they are the problem and that they need to go.  Even when you  explain that you think that all people have the right to live in our country, some people love to put their brown pact talk on it and try to demolish your message.
Post a nice photo, eventually edit it a bit, and people will make a laught about it, take your photo and ruin it, because it si funny.

Well, it is not funny at all.   As most of you know I do not shut up, and I stand up when people treat other people without respect.   I don't care if you like it or not, I tell you how I see it and that is it!
In the social media it is  impossible to dscuss things in larger groups.
There are always people 'waiting'  to find a way to shovel you down.  Not with content, but with things like making jokes about spelling mistakes, outlook or your choice.
Isn't that disgusting? Why can't we just leave the other alone?  When I do not like what you write, or when I do not like your photo, I  can say something, in respect. I not need to throw with mud to you because your opinion is different than mine!  
Only when you are racist, or nazistic... therefeore is null tolerance!
And with that I also mean the people who say I am not a racist, I have nothing against foreigners...  BUT....     The but word is undiscussable.  You don't have something against someone, or you have.  There is no middle way.

I don't mind when you have another opinion.
I do mind if you treat me, or someone else, with disrespect.  Just tell what you feel, what you think, just like the other. Give each other the chance to react. Violence, in words, is probably even more hurting then a slap in the face.
Shut down your social media for a day. Go to meet people in real, and listen to them.  Do you react the same way to them as what you do on line?  


Montag, 21. August 2017

To smoke or not to smoke

That could be the question.

For some people it is not a question, they need to smoke, so they will smoke, no matter what.  Now I do not want to preach about health or so, because that's wide enough known, everyone knows that.

I was editing a photo, today, and I found on it a stump (not sure if it is a proper english word, anyway a leftover) of a cigarette (filter) on it.
It reminded me to what I often see, at popular public places, the harbour, the park, where the number of the 'cigarette leftovers'  is remarkable.

In a spontaneous mood (typical me!)  I wrote below the photo, that I like a smoke free area in the park.  The reactions were various.
One notarious smoker disagreed.  Another one started to point to the doggies'  leftovers that are to be found as wll.  A third person talked about being respectful, and taking the dirt back with you.

And that is exactly my point.  It is wonderful that there are parks and public places, especially for people who love to be in the open air and not have too much of it at home.  I think everyone enjoys being in the nature, but how enjoyable it is to find everywhere evidences of smoking?   It can't be healthy for the animals as well, I think?

But, the human race is strange, very strange.  When people leave their half filled coffee cup at a seat (!!)  in the train, I wonder what is wrong with them.  And the solution is so easy!  Waste bins are many, and everywhere. Yes, you incidentically have to carry your (YOUR!!) dirt a bit longer, to find such, but hey, when we were young it was normal that we had a bag with us and put our empty things in it, to throw it away at home. What's the problem with that, you can carry it one way, so why not the other as well?

I think it all has to do with respect. When you think about what you are doing, and how your action may effect others, you are already on the way to solve the problem.  When you do not want to see your own dirt, you can count on it that others do not want to see it either.  Clean it!  Take it away from where it not belongs!

Emd of ranting. I think that I am slowly becoming one of the rare people that cares for nature and environment.

Tell me I am wrong (and better, prove it!)

Samstag, 19. August 2017

No hate

I guess that the title is 'catching'  you, and that you all agree with it.  No hate!

We not want hate in our life. But so far the theory. How much hate is there actually in your life?

Do you hate your work, your boss, the neighbours, taxes, government? Or maybe you hate your food, or the noise in the street?
Or do you hate yourself?

There are people who even hate people, because they are different, from different countries, that ultimate hate is called racism and I do not allow that in my life, not in real and not digital.

In my opinion there are two reasons to hate others. The first one is because you have no idea about the situation of the other.  The second reason, what is close connected with the first one, is a frustration, because the others are in a position that you want to be in.  


Hate is aweful. It makes you angry, it makes you blind and it brings solutions further away. Here the point why some 'world leaders'  are promoting and encouraging hate against others.  If you hate someone, and fight against him, you not need to solve your own problems. Then it is not you first, but it is first eleminating the other. And who is not with me, is against me (and needs to be eleminated)

Do we really want to hate others?  
No?
Then, why do not stop it?
Why not listen to what others have to say? And if you disagree, say it?

I will always shout out against discrimination and I tell you why. 

Why not listen to the arguements of the other?  Why not try to understand why people are acting like they do?  Not in violence, but with respectful listening and asking?

It is up to you.
Hate, or try to understand. There is no way in between. When you disagree, that is fine as well. As long as you respect the opnion of the other.
Discrimination, Nazism, is not respectful. We not need that in our lives.  Don't accept that others put oil on the fire and make you hate.  Hate is never the answer. Love is. Love understands. Love matters. Just like coffee





Mittwoch, 16. August 2017

speak out

Until now I had some 'goodwill' for people who voted Trump, and are still in my 'friends list'.
I saw all their 'likes' at pro Trump posts in the past, and in wordfights on this subject, that I had they 'liked' against me. Freedom to do so, and if I care for people, I not need to delete them for a different opinion.

Now that even loyal Americans are in shock, and protesting, I see NO likes at all, when people shout out against racism and nazism.

What is this telling me about those persons?
And what should I do with them, now they sneakily and secretly show their support for racism?

Racism and Nazism (and a few things more) are an absolutely no go! Null tolerance for that.
So, should I 'help' the US Dictator and encourage a bigger hole between the two camps?

I refuse to use hate. I will talk. I will support EVERY resistance against discrimination, no matter in what country, no matter with who.

So, my silent friends, speak out. Tell me why you are supporting this moron, now he makes more and more clear what a monster he really is. Speak out. Show more guts then him, and discuss about it. Can you? Can you really? Then do it!


Montag, 14. August 2017

Relax about real eggs

Here in Gewrmany, and appearantly in more countries then we knew, there is a new food poisoning scandal.

There has been added toxical stuff to the chicken food, and that came into the eggs. Who exactly is to blame, there about are the big ones still fighting.

For us, as consumers, it means that we listen and look to the news with a guarantee to see some news about the eggs.  Some supermarkets do not sell them at all anymore, others just limited. And the hype came to people as well, as it used to be.

We don't want poisoned eggs, are the things that the press tells us to yell.  And of courrse we not need to poison ourselves, but hey.... this is happening for months already, and no one noticed it so far. Still, the experts tell there is no reason for alarm.  I think that there are still more things that poison us then the eggs, but ... let's keep with them :)

So, people not eating eggs anymore.  When I ook around, I see many people eating cake with their coffee. It not seems to be so that people all the sudden eat less of that baked stuff, what is created with .... eggsacly :)

And I should not wonder if there are people wiho discuss badly about eggs, while eating their cakes. :)

Let's just breath, relex (releggs?) and face the eality.  Things can taste wonderful, and then all the sudden, when you know what is in it, you can not eat it anymore?  

Sigh... don't let the media upset you.  There are other things that are more to worry about. Such as a president who allows white supremacy.   Damn!  Talking about rotten eggs!!!

Sonntag, 13. August 2017

Shame on you!

A few words from me about the terror act in Charlottesville, America, where a march for 'white supremacy'  escalated and caused some deadly victims.

I know some people might say, mind your own business, but considering this is a deed against humanity, I think it is my business.

It is horrible, that a president does not dare to say clear on what side he stands in this.
This horrible man allows crime marches of Ku Klux Clan and nazism, and even tries to de-ascalate it with saying that both parties were wrong.

A man with guts should be clear and tell that there is no place in this world for discrimination, hate speech and (white) supremacy
This horrible leader does not want to loose the support of some people in his administration, who are happy with this kind of escalations.  This horrible leader makes enormous uproar when a muslim attacks in a country, far away, but when some extremists with loads of violence terrorise a town in his own country, he simply sais, bad boys,  you should not have done it, and returns to his golf court (or his word war with a mental disturbed leader in N.Korea).


And  what do the people around this president say?  They do not dare to say much, because they know that, when they act against this narcistic racistic leader, that the days of the party  to rule are over. Appearantly that is what not might happen, and the price that the republicans are willng to pay for it is high. So high that it causes a really thread for world peace.   

Someone needs to stop this president. And more then that, someone needs to stop those movements. It is a signal, that they not hide themselves, and openly manifistate themselves.  They know that they are tolerated by the incampable, orange leader, who is more intrested in a bit more money for his imperium then for human.

No one can say that they do not know what is going to happen. No one needs to say that it is not possible to change the things. It is.  And it needs not much, to say, we are not going to take it.

No to racism

No to nazism
Please  clear this world from the worst thing that ever happened after Hitler. 



Freitag, 4. August 2017

Things I do not understand

There are many things I do not understand

And I do not talk, this time, about loosing my hearing, or language problems.
It is not the first time, and, it is not the last time, and as long as no one can give me a good answer, I keep on asking those questions.

When I read posts, that start with 'I risk with writing this that I loose friends', foloowed by a supporting writing for  a very questionable person, then I can understand why he writes so.  By adding the fear of loosing friends, you automatically give some of them a guilty feeling, about leaving because you not agree with the statements following. If this 'emotional pressure'  is on purpose, or not, I do not know. When the reactions on that statement are, friends will remain friends, 'we'  support the questionable statement, as in a friendship is more important then justice for all.
Maybe I see it wrong!

Maybe I see it wrong when someone that I know very good, is posting a 'text photo'  about refugees, who ask the first day for a shelter, the second day for a house, the third day for a washing machiine,  that I do not like that?
The more when that person most likely never has taken effort to read, or talk about the subject at all.
The parrot, sitting at the couch, talking the things that others put in his mouth, or, in this case, spread the things that were in his messenger, without even thinking what he is doing.

I might be wrong to react fanatical at this, but it is hard to do not so.  I still like that person, but I dislike this kind of ideas, and it frustrates me to see someone who has this kind of a disgusting view at others without that he even tries to investigate if the statements he spreads are correct or not.

Yes, it is a 'whoops, I did it again'  moment.  I will always make the mistake to react on this kind of situations, and risk that people get disappointed in what I write (oooo Hans, see what you do, read back the first lines of the blog.....), but I have to do it.

And if I hurt you with it, I challenge you to talk with me, and find out if we can discuss until we agree again with eachother.

I think I am expecting too much, in this, from certain people, but I won't give up trying. Why? Beccause I do care.  And that is one of the few questions on what I know the answer..

As Freddie sings .. why can't we give love one more chance?-

Samstag, 22. Juli 2017

Random thoughts, chapter .1.273.475

I think everyone should know what (s)he posts at internet, in the social media. And that is exactly what is happening. Good!

But, 


when people are so excited about their hoolidays, that they need to post photos about the preparations, the turning back, and of course many, many photos about their trip?  Or posting about 200 or more photos about a concert you went to?
It reminds me about an uncle that came to us, and we were always a bit afraid about the suitcase he carreid. If the black one was with him, it meant that we could watch dias/light photos for an evening. Uncle here, uncle there, uncle with flowers, flowers without uncle, unclee without flowers.. Help....

Luckily the computer has a scroll function, you can choose the own speed to get thrugh the information. And you not need to see it as well.  Who knows me a bit, knows that, when you act that way, that you can get silly reactions, in what I indirectly say, it is enough.  But when I really not want to see it, I just can skip it and keep my mouth (or fingers) shut.  Why should I take away the fun from the people who are so enthisastic?  Other then with Uncle G, we not need to see it.  And we not need to react as well.

Why are some people, who are married, posting 'word wisdoms'  on what is told how much they regret to be married?  Should that be fun, or is there another  reason behind it?   Definitely I have my thoughts when I see similar postings coming from both partners. 

Is it so that the social media are becoming the legal way of commuicate with each other?  So that you can sit together at the couch and then use Messengers to tell the other to f.. off?  (or the other way around, but that is rarely seen -until now-).

Shouldn't we use the social media as how it is meant?  It tells Social... not anti social.. 

 Respect each other. Make fun, and if a joke is not done, then tell the other about it. And if you want to say your partner somethng..  remember that it is always possible to speak with each other. Don't be scared to argue.  Love can handle that and, at the end (as my Auntie always said, there is a way to make it all good again. And that is not from the last 20 years, it works aas long as people live  :) 


Freitag, 21. Juli 2017

Gone too soon

And another one is gone too soon

There are so many people, and not only in the music scene, that go too soon!


Now Chester Bennington ended his life, a lot of people are in shock (again) and the records will sell better then ever.  




Why?

Why do peeple go too soon?
Is it a (mind) illness, that they can not stop, that ends their life before it is time?
Is it the person itself, who decides that it is time, and therefore for him(her)self the right moment, but for the rest of the people around them it still is way too soon?

I guess we never know exactly why people decide to end their life.  I do not think it is a free will, I am convinced that it is, for them, the only way that they see to get out of their life.

My first reaction is anger, because how does anyone dare to do this, to his beloved, to his family, to his friends?  There are plenty of ways that you can get help, so WHY do you do this to all the people around you?

When I calm down, I realize that the decission to end life too soon, is not an easy one.  What are the last things you think, the last things you do (aparrt from preparing your departure)?  

I can not decide for others, what is the best solution for their problems. I think that we all might have moments, on what we see no other solution then going ... too soon.  But most of us do not go too soon.  They do not have the guts to  go too soon. Or they do care too much, to let go.  When you want to go, and you can not go... 

Good, that are just a few reflections.  Every time I read a message, that one stepped out of this life, too soon, the memories come up, to people  that I know that did take such steps before. And I feel sad, because I know that there will be others that will follow. Too soon.

Now it is hes the singer of Linkin Park, and all the sudden he has a name that we won't forget.
Is he gone too soon?  Or does he live forever, in our hearts?  Maybe he does, for a while. And then he becomes a name, a number, and we slowly add him in the row, with the many others, like Janis, Jimmi, Bon, Kurt..... and all the others, that I just forgot...  but who are gone too soon.