Fooling yourself

There are nice psychologic games you can play.

When you are always agressive, and all the sudden, for one moment, are not, it might confuse the people arlound you. Many might get hope that the person is not that bad at all, and that things might turn out better then they thought.

I am always supsicious when such happens. 

Someone, who constantly showed agressive behavior, in words and deeds, before he achieved his goal and after it, and then all the sudden gets mild, when he can not do else as talk with his opponents.  What are his mild words worth, can you trust such a person?  

Some people wiill trust him again.  But as long as that trust is only based at words, and not at facts, how much reliable this is?
When you trust those words, you might be fooling yourself... Again.  He knows it happened successfully before.

Don't fool yourself. See the facts. Fight against what you dislike