Things I don't understand (part 1)

I added part 1 to this title, because I think that there might come up some more things in time that I don't understand.
And that's NOT a language barreer this time -smile-

The on line communitiesare nice, and for a number of people it is a way to express their feelings, to share their private life. One goes further in that than others, and I personally tell alot to a few at my messenger, but in FB and other stuff I try to restrict what I say, you never know who reads it.

There are people however who don't have that limit, for whatever reason that might be. And than all the sudden you find a complete life history in the mailbox or blogs, and when reading it I realy wonder, what's the use of people writing all their complex minds, illnesses and other things that I cannot do much about.
Okay, maybe is writing down helping to control it and of course that is good, and if you realy want to share, why not, it is everyones' free choice. But again, when you do so, you find people noticing it who you never thought that they should or would read it.
And a thing that comes with it, others read it and react. Most of the time in gossiping with others, but now and than someone reacts serious (or less serious) and than there is a contact.

So that happened around me, I saw that happening and this morning, for whatever reason I thought (out of the blue, it was 8 am) that those 2 should phone today with each other. I had no idea why or what, but I felt that way about it.

And now that came out, one of the two (the reader also) told it to me, in the usual words 'I didn't want to tell, but... we did phone, and I shall not do it again, the situation is complicated.'
Heck yea, what could you expect? if you read the messages, you kknow it is complex and the only reason to be surprised out of a phone call, is (I think) that before you weren'T taken teh words that serious.

Okay, my consideration.. Maybe one understands why I'd frown my eyebrows when I heard this reaction.
WHYY on eart are you contacting someone, to talk about PROBLEMS, whilst you are not intrested in the problems, but in the contact?
WHY do I need to know about it? I don't care with who you talk, I care about OUR talks and that's it.

So, that's the thing I don't understand. And I don't expect an explanation from whoever;) It's just.. I don't get it!

We shall see how the things develop further. I have a high respect for my friend who did that call, but... I can't understand it, and that is the last time that I wrote that in this blog.

TaTa For Now,

A confused planet ;)