Kiss the past goodbye
Can you do it?
Sometimes there show up people in your life, who you like to forget, sooner or later. I do not think you meet them by mistake, I think you meet them to learn and continue your trip through life.
I know some people, who I can get upset with, with whatever move they make. They now and then show as well up in my friends circle, and all I get from tthem is red spots, nervous breakdowns and the intention to react negative at all that they do or say.
I get blind for them and take everything they do as negative.
And people can say, Hans, leave them alone, they are not worth it. And I know that they are right, but it is as if I need such a 'sparring partner', for being nasty to.
The past weeks I noticed that I had such an attitude about someone who I personally know, again. I could resist to act in public, I kept calm (can someone pat me on the shoulder for that). And when I was thinking about why I reacted such way, I suddenly gave up about searching for that why. I tried to look to the person and see with an open mind why (s)he is acting that way. It was an eye opener, because I changed my opinion. No longer I think that (s)he means bad with his/her behavior.
It looks like I now realize the other side of the meddle better, why people act the way they do. I want to keep that feeling, looking at both sides, before judging. Life is too short to put negative energy into it
Also, I kiss the past goodbye. I not need to be angry with you, or feel frustrated. Because I am not you, and you are not me. I love to live my life, the way I do, so you can do that as well.
For now it feels good. Maybe you can leave your past behind as well?