Who has children, can rely on that.
Who has lost a lovely person, as well
But, it is as well the only way we can go. Letting go, is what to do, when you really want the other to be free.
And, most important, if you, yourself, need a freedom, what you can not gain with the other.
I think that is the magic word in this.. Freedom.
What is a relation, or a friendship, worth, when it all depends on the wishes and desires of one?
What is a friendship worth, if the other is so busy with his own doings, that (s)he barely takes time for you? What when you ask for a word, and there is never time for it, when YOU need it, but it has to be at the time that the other has nothing (better) to do?
People can call me friend, and I love it, but it is not always friendship, what the other means.
We learn it the hard way. I have not many friends, but the friends that I do have, are loyal, and always there when I need them. They let me free, I let them 'go', and we know that we will always be able to find each other again. When it is needed, an open ear or eye is there. And then is distance not an excuse. Either is 'I have no time'.
If you really want to be there for the other, lend him/her an ear. Listen to what (s)he has to say. Just listen.. you need not to solve the problems from others.
Sometimes friendships change. And then, all the sudden, it is a one way love. You will get hurt from it, until the moment that you realize, that you are acting all the way to please, or get attention from, the other. You change your schedule. You answer the phone when (s)he calls, and when you calls, there is no time.
Let it go.
If you love yourself, then don't let yourself being hurted by the other.
You are too much worth, to dance the rythm of someone else, who is dancing at his/her own music.
Kick the ball in the goal of the other, instead of waiting for the shot at yours.
Break free.. Let go. It is the hardest way, but it is very much worth it!
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