Work in progress

When I recently walked my 'block in the park', I saw that one of the bridges is closed for maintenance. 

There are more bridges over the canal, and, this time, I had chosen to use no bridge at all, it did not disturb my path.

Sometimes the bridges between two sides are dangerous.  When we not allow others to pass the bridge, both sides will loose.

One side might be disappointed, eventually angry and trying ot force to get over the bridge by all means..
The other side will use its poower to lkeep them at the other side.

When one bridge is closed, people will find another bridge, or another way, to pass the water.

And then we meet eachother again.  

Burning down the bridges, will only cause that there is a lot needed to rebuild them again.

No tome to worry ...

I found this at one of my friends' Facebook, and it caught me right away. 

There are so many moments that I put the wrong priorities, and am nosing in other ones busiess, what in fact is none of my business.  Well, not in fact, it IS not!

But when friends, or people that i like, act in a way that I do not like, it is hard to shut up and say nothing. I expect from my friends that they say to me, hey, stop that, when I do things that annoy them.

 I kow that only very good friends shall do that, and that makes them such special friends.

However, I always like to show how I think, how I feel, what I do, and I shall not stop letting you know, when I think your doings are not what I like to see. 

That is the deal in being friends with me.  As well digital, and as well considering that digital friends are not the same as real friends.

Please excuse me now, I need a lot of loving to do (and there is football to watch, in a few minutes :-D)  

Who to blame

A few thoughts that went through my head, recently, on what I not know the answer, but I like to think about them, and share them with you.  So, warning, stuff to think about is on your way!

Who is to blame, for actions?  Usually you can say, the person who initates, is responsible. In politics does that mean, that the party that you are in, is encouraging your decisions.
Should we blame one person, for what he is signing, or are the people who prepare the documents as well responsible?  For me it is clear. A political leader is as strong as that his audience is making him.
It is easier to point to one person, then to blame the entire system behind it, what makes it possible that this happens.
Dictatorship and repression do not end with erazing one name. Therefore the system needs to be investigated and corrected.

It is not a secret that I am against ANY form of violence and discrimination of people, in whatever way. Freedom to speech, freedom to travel, freedom to be, is important and I stand for that.  Hate and Fear are taking away the power to think and the power to act.  Love is the (re)action.
I most definitely hate how some people ill-use their power, it is disgusting and against every human codex. Inacceptable.
The change, however should be in us, the silent majority. When do we open our eyes and say, enugh is enough? The day will come, may it be quick, because there is a lot of work to do to return the parts of humanity that are violated now.