The human kind

Be Human, Be kind,  Be both.

Sure, sounds like a plan, but ihow to combine those 2 in a very normal daily life?

What if a friend asks for help, because her ex is kidnapping her digital accounts?

The human side tells me to pinch that person at the nose. No one should nose into other persons business!  And definitely not when a situation is lost (as in a divorce)  Leave each other alone, concentrate at the new upcoming future and dont make life impossible for each other!

The kind side of me thinks, o, what a childish person.  I shall help the other so that the damage is as less as possible, humming 'friends will be friends' , smiling when it succeeds, whisteling when the other is thankful.  And then me is happy as a just born piggy (I assume they are happy, no idea, I never did ask one about it).

And what if I read that Prince Friso of Holland (who is in coma afer his accident 18 months ago) is transported from the hospital in the UK back to Holland?
My kind side sais, that's better for his family, to have him near by.
My human side shakes its head about the immense mass of money that is spilled on a life what isnt a worthy life at all (as far as I can see that).  My human side feels hurts, because such should NEVER been done for someone like you and me, who has not a royal family behind it. And we are paying for such our taxes?  How can I be kind about that?

And then a sweet message comes. Hans, enjoy your life, enjoy the bright things.
That is so kind, and so human, that I all the sudden have nothing more to say.

I LOVE it, and I love to be human and kind as well

“The best portion of a good man’s life. His little, nameless,
unremembered acts of kindness and of love.”

~ William Wordsworth

Mr Roboto

The last few weeks we are overloaded with the new high tech issues, google glass and apple iwatch
Gooogle Glass is already, the glasses that make your eyes part of your computing devices and apples' I watch, still unrevealed, will come soon as well.
Where are we going to? How much we let our lives being  directed by robots, or, to name it, by google, apple and co?
Because that is what happens, when we buy those new devices. We lay our lifes in hands of companies that want to get profit of it.
With the huge discussions and shocks about the data-spy from the US, it seems that we all the sudden want to protect our privacy even more.
And at the same time we give all our privacy away.  In foutsquare we share the moment that we check in our hotel, or where we have dinner, and with who. With runkeeper we show how fit we are, or how much we walk, with dropbox we give an almost live view of where we are, and with a bit of luck we can picture a (bad) accident and post it as one of the first at Twitter or Facebook.

I think we should be happy with the all seeing glasses and the all registrating watches. It will safe us a lot of work to exposure every step that we make, every move that we take, they'll be watching us.
Privacy?  Dont let me laugh, none of us wants it!

Read the article http://www.theregister.co.uk/2013/07/03/review_fitbit_flex_activity_monitor/

and in the meantime hear this clip http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x7kxo_styx-mr-roboto_music#.UdVQT_nwnh4

goodbye

Most of you know it, and all of you should know it, I did quit my passion play, I did quit playing mafia wars.

I do not miss the game for a second, it was soooooo time consuming.  
And now, a few days later.. it feels like I have less time then ever before

Of course I did find some replacements, not necessarily in games, and partially as well in my Facebook group
Staying Power (click to join)  but still, it is as if life is hitting harder and I got more things at my plate. Nice things, nice jobs, ah well, I definitely do not complain about it, the fear 'what to do after MW'  is gone, I should have done it more early.  I was happy with a message from a friend, this morning, I was happy with a Friendshipsrequest, without many words and, (thank heaven some things do not change..)  with a message from a drama queen.
Why the drama Queen did message me, no idea.  I know some people miss me, just like I do miss some people, but there is a solution, just join and be at 'the other account'.  Easy!

But, miss drama queen decided to not do so, with as reason.. I should have been added already, if you wanted me at your list.
Nah..  i think the other way around.  Who wants to stay can , I am only 2 clicks away.  But I guess we both are right. Nevertheless, it was an eye opener for me, to see that I do not care about what and how 'others'  are pretending.  This is my life and I am doing all right.

Same goes for yesterdays' drama queen.  A stalker of a good friend appeared to have an account that did try to use me to get to her goal.  It failed and the only thing I got is 'hey hans, I suppose you are going to block me,blablabla'  All I did response, dont fuck around with my friends, and.... gone she is :)
I dont need to be right or wrong.  I dont need to be friends with you. I want to be friends with some, yes,and for those I am there. I can be pretty good in silence, but dont mix it up with that I ignore you.  Maybe the silence means even more then my magic way of  juggling with words.

Let your heart decide, just like I let mine :)

Oh NO! :(

A few days ago US law FINALLY did make a step forward in the equal treatment of homosexual people, and it was shown world wide.

Now today, I ran into this article, by accident.

Strange enough I have not seen many words about this until now. While in fact this is much more important news for the world.

Russians President Putin wants it to be forbidden to encorage even TALKS about homosexuality, and the excuse for it is to protect the children.

Holy fucking hell, what is that Putin dong?  Who is not with him is against him...
I fear the day comes that religion becomes a crime too, I see the transports to the camps in siberia.

Say this aint true!  Say that we can stop those f cking discrimanation!

Click on this line to read a short atrticle about what Putin is wanting to do

I am off a bit.  I need a bucket to puke.  Please let a gay hug me :)

Good or bad

Never a boring day in life, they say, but you need to see it first before you know it.

Today was supposed to be the day to say farewell to Mafiawars, the game that did involve most of my days in the past 4 years. Hmm... I dont know if I should write that down here, luckily not many people read this, elsewise  I  should be locked up by men in white coats for a long time. LOL:

Anyway.  I had annouced already that I should stop the game, and today was the day that I should leave the family I did play with for the last time.  So, this morning I did log in for the last time at the group page, and was a bit sad about it, because, yea, you take you leave, and of course there are a few people that I will miss.
How wrong it was to look into the group!  

I was confrontated by the message of someone who did announce her goodbye, weeks ago, and now all the sudden did decide to stay.  I am realy happy for the group, but it is pretty weird. Me walking out the door and she walking back in at the same moment.
I could get suspicious about it and take it as a personal matter.

I did. How COULD she?  And as usual I needed to air my anger in a way. The music, and the Facebook were my loyal listeners this time and now, a few hours later, I am feeling relaxed and okay with it all. When it was a personal matter against me, it is clear and fine. I mean, I dont need to communicate further with this person and if this is her way of saying, glad that you're gone, then fine.
And, if it was not that personal (in the end I am not THAT important!), then it is fine too.

But the incident did me consider again about how people can be. And how much difficulties I have when people do not tell me directly what's on their mind. On the other hand I know how difficult it is for me to tell some others right away what I want as well. So I better should not point to others when I am not much better :)

Anyway, that was the game, game over. New challenges for the good. And for the bad, there is always some good as well.

DOWN with DOMA

A historical day in the land of the free.
A law did pass in what there are more equal rights for all people, what is, including gay relations.  The world cheers and is happy, but we all know that a larg part of the people in the world do NOT agree with it.

And even at my facebook the truth came up.
Lots of cheers and hopeful messages

And then this picture was posed on what as reaction came: '


is he gay only males have tuss
 What the F CK??????

We can cheer and be happy, yes, but there is a very long way to go.

Ah, nothing new for 'us queenfans'  We are all those 40 years constantly confrontated with people that treat us like we are suffering a strange decease while we LOVE Freddie.


Let's work harder. It is more needed then ever.

Save me

Yes, I as well have an opinion to share about this tricky subject.

Well, how tricky is it, in fact?

How shocked are we realy that, some person (good or bad) is telling the TRUTH about what is happening behind the (iron) curtains?
It is as if history repeats. And in more then one case the people who did tell the truth are welcomed in countries of the opposite/enemy as heroes.
There is also nothing new in that, when people tell such thngs, there is a strong media offensive, from the local governments, to twist the story back, so that the one who just is showing the leaks, is all the sudden a criminal.

How criminal it is to show how easy it is for so called top secrets to be spread around the world?
Is it criminal to show the world how light hearted governments are treating critical information?
What did we learn in school, when we didnt make our homework correct?  Could we blame the teacher or were we supposed to redo our work until it was good?

There was an artist that did sing that song about politics schmolitics. And he is right (waves to Roger). Politicians, and political intstitutes, are always able to find words so that it looks like they cannot help it. They are the best in twisting words.

See now what did happen with Snowden.
Bood  out in the U.S., while he did show how huge the leaks re with top security info
Secretly supported by China and Russia, for  those countries like to see the spotlights for one time not in their direction but in that of America.

And, everywhere,  'the system'  is able to make 'the people'  believe in their words.
A few weeks ago we were not aware of Mr Snowden. But didnt we know what was happening? Come on...  Enough said about this. I will be posting and reposting this image of annesty international, because it tells so much in just a few words.

The other 'hot news' in the papers is the fact that Berlusconi will be  charged again. This time for having sex with under aged girls. It is for a change, no taxes or what, this time.
When I compare the two bandits, Berlusconi and Snowden, I must say that I am way more scared from the methods of Silvio. And the fact that he, even being guilty, is able to continue his crap.
Na, I dont even have to look that far from home.  here in Germany Mr Bayern München, Uli Hoenneß, who didnt pay his taxes, freely can continue what he is doing. Beware when we, small citicens of the same country, do not pay our taxes in time.

I am sure you know enough examples from your country, from your city as well.
Now where should we be afraid for?